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catboykilljoy97 · 6 months ago

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So, what I've gathered based on some online sleuthing in various trans communties, is that:

Trans men feel erased in queer spaces and in discussions of trans people. Most of the attention/resources goes to trans women. Isn't that awful?

2. Trans women feel erased in queer spaces and in discussions of trans people. Most of the attention/resources goes to trans men. Isn't that awful?

3. Nonbinary people are lumped into either "basically a trans man" or "basically a trans woman" based on AGAB. No, this isn't regressive at all. Trust us.

4. Everyone involved should violently fucking hate each other and throw as much blame as possible because of this

can i go be a hermit in the woods now. i know that's like, the whole thing i'm trying to escape, but honestly it sounds good rn

#you get the same stuff from cis ppl btw #mens spaces: men can't talk about their feelings and they're expected to just be stoic and useful to others #women's spaces: women can't talk about their feelings and they're expected to just be stoic and useful to others #can! we! all! stop! this! shit!#i'm torn between “I don't deserve to transition because it one point i fell for this shit and so i'm just a piece of shit transmisogynist”#it's too unsafe for me to transition because no one will accept me anyways they'll just dismiss my issues #and use any excuse to say i'm taking up too much space #happy wrath month everybody. i guess.#cbkj vents #cbkj speaks

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